Imagine a man who is fantastic at reading nonverbal signals when playing poker but terrible when he turns away from his chips to speak to his wife. This might be because when the goal - beat the other guy - is more congruent with his interpersonal aim - establish control - he does it well. When the goal - sweet-talk wife - is incongruent with his aim - establish control - he fails.
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